Is it your First Time with a Trans Woman?

The First time with a Trans woman Is not the easiest thing for some people.

There are many myths, and fears hidden behind the desire of dating a TS girl. Myths that make some men, and women, scared to try new things. Afraid of becoming who they want to be, with who they desire to be with. Some people end up choosing not to try a happy life with a trans girl and end up not happy with themselves.

Because of family, fear, society, tabu, etc… It becomes the easiest thing to give up and stick up with the frustration of not being able to date the one you want to. But there is some good news! If you here reading this blog,  this is already your first step!

Dating a Transexual woman is as simple as dating any other cis woman.

Because of the tabu around, it becomes much scarier than any other thing.  Just like any other woman, some of us love romantic man, kind and sweet words, gentlemen who treat us like any other human beans. Also, like any other woman, some of us will not like any of this, and that will be fine too. As humans we are different. And all that we need from our partner is that he understands our differences. We do have personality, very strong BTW due to the fact that we learned to protect ourselves before allowing anyone to enter into our lives. But once there is trust, love, affection involved, you may find in a trans woman one of the most sincere, passionate relations you ever head.

I, particularly, Love first-timers.

To me is very attractive to be someone’s first, to make someone’s first experience unforgettable in a good way. To know that for that person I was someone positive, who got motivated to maybe even find the love of his life with a trans woman. It becomes very special, to see the fear changing into pleasure, the tabu into knowledge, and with it the minimization of prejudice for that person.  Nothing Better then see some on getting real rock hard and excited to hold my cock for the first time, or even kiss me with his lips shaking.

Tips For your  as a First timer:

• Try to relax on your first date. Remember that dating a Trans woman is as good as dating a cisgender woman. Before go to your date, do activities that relax your body-mind. If you drink, maybe have a glass of your favorite drink. It will help you calm down and make your date much more enjoyable. But PLEASE, don’t get drunk, its one glass.
• Remember that for it to work,  it will depend on both of you. It has to be as good for you as it will be for her and vice versa. The goal is to have a great time and make it enjoyable as much as possible. So it can happen many more times.
•  Avoid circumstances and subjects unnecessary during the first meet. There will be enough time for you to discover your date, therefore, conversations that are not relevant to the moment can cause more embarrassment than pleasure. Questions like: Whats was is your real name? How much do you earn doing this? Or terms like Real Woman, Tranny, Shemale, LaddyBoy during the first conversation, is not only offensive but it also cut the mood and interest from any trans girl.
• Don’t control your own pleasure. between those walls, everything can be done as long as you both agree. There will be no need for you hesitate unless you truly don’t feel comfortable doing such a thing. The body is made to feel pleasure and to give pleasure as well, that’s why once you chose to date your trans lady, you are open-minded willing to have a good time as you would with a cisgender girl.
• Make it special and unforgettable. I believe that you will want to remember your first experience forever. It will be like losing your virginity all over again, but this time you are more mature and able to make wiser choices. Knowing that, keep in mind that this moment is SPECIAL. Make it incredible so you can repeat it again.

Now, its time to make it happen!

I hope to be the one to make your first date special and unforgettable with you. If not, my wish is that you take this advice and make it work with the special lady you chose to have a special encounter with. And even if it isn’t your first time with a Trans, make it special as it was. Only like this, I can guaranty you that those moments will forever stay in your mind as a great and happy experience.

Let me know how was your first date on the comments below. Chose wisely! And welcome to your newest obsession!